When They Shut Down or Won’t Shut Up
Good Communication can be tricky in almost any situation but what do you do when your spouse shuts down or they won’t shut up!?
These Words Will Save Your Marriage
I will never forget the day I heard those words. They completely changed the course of my marriage . . . and my life . . .
Transform Your Marriage With This One Trick!
If your marriage is currently struggling, understand that many marriages struggle because they have never discovered this one little trick that will…
Stop Playing Games- The Silent Treatment
The Silent Treatment is another one of those games that some people are far too good at. Some people like to yell, some like to use sarcasm and wit and others like to use silence to make their point. When on the receiving end of the silent treatment, it can seem like...
Stop Playing Games: The Blame Game
THE BLAME GAME- NOT FUN! He said… she said… he did… she did…it’s the oldest game in the book. It's the BLAME GAME— but it’s not very fun! The blame game and pointing the finger goes well beyond our marriage. In fact, it is a game that every culture, every language,...
The Principle of ALWAYS and NEVER
There are lots of well-meaning counselors and relationship books who will tell you to never use the words 'never' and 'always' when having an argument. You know how it goes- she says "you always treat me this way..." etc. Then he says "well you never give me any...
Our Story- PART 4
When I sat down with the minister—his name was Cliff, he said something to me that completely changed my life and our marriage. What he said to me was the KEY TO SAVING OUR MARRIAGE and it is what has kept us together these past 20+ years, and it is the key to having...
Our Story- PART 3
The masks had finally come off and I was crushed! All of my hopes and dreams for our future were completely demolished. How could I go on thinking that we had a future when she would always be thinking the worst of me? Even if things seemed to get better- how would I...
Our Story- PART 2
This family almost didn't happen! We were separated 3 times in the first 3 years of our marriage. During our third separation, we were living over 600 miles apart for about 5 months with almost no contact during that time. As far as we were concerned, our marriage was...
