THE BLAME GAME- NOT FUN! He said… she said… he did… she did…it’s the oldest game in the book. It’s the BLAME GAME— but it’s not very fun! The blame game and pointing the finger goes well beyond our marriage. In fact, it is a game that every culture, every...
There are lots of well-meaning counselors and relationship books who will tell you to never use the words ‘never’ and ‘always’ when having an argument. You know how it goes- she says “you always treat me this way…” etc. Then...
When I sat down with the minister—his name was Cliff, he said something to me that completely changed my life and our marriage. What he said to me was the KEY TO SAVING OUR MARRIAGE and it is what has kept us together these past 20+ years, and it is the key to having...
The masks had finally come off and I was crushed! All of my hopes and dreams for our future were completely demolished. How could I go on thinking that we had a future when she would always be thinking the worst of me? Even if things seemed to get better- how would I...
This family almost didn’t happen! We were separated 3 times in the first 3 years of our marriage. During our third separation, we were living over 600 miles apart for about 5 months with almost no contact during that time. As far as we were concerned, our...
